Ideas? Or should I stick to the general provisions?
I was also impressed by how much a man’s paintings reminded me of the work of a group of world-renowned Canadian artists. Would it be good to say something like, “Your view of rocks and cliffs reminds me so much of Tom Thomson,” or is it insulting?
It’s not hard to delight artists ̵
As for comparisons, she suggests asking if the other artist may have influenced, which is a little more respectful than suggesting that there may be some bad imitations.
Dear ladies manners: I have three elderly ladies neighbors in my apartment complex. We have been close since the beginning of the coronavirus pandemic, and for many months we drank socially distant drinks on the porch every afternoon.
I face the expectation that I will be on the porch with them every day. Besides, I don’t feel like I can leave or come back at the appointed time without having to explain myself. They send texts to invite me back to the porch. They follow me to the extent that a person calls me to check if I’m not outside when my car is not in its usual place.
How do I get them to back down? I told them I wouldn’t be so down and I hadn’t joined them lately. I know they mean well and they are bored, but the attention is intense. I feel trapped and guilty.
They know where you live.
This does not mean that they need to know what you are thinking. Sending an invitation or many does not require you to accept. Think of it as a constant invitation (with too many reminders) that you should only accept when you want to. Just because they can meet often doesn’t mean you can.
The best excuse is not an excuse accompanied by an expression of regret: “I’m sorry, I can’t this time.” To attend and then leave, it’s, “I’m sorry, I have to go now.” If they dare to ask. why, the answer should be, “Because I have things to do.”
And you don’t have to answer the phone when they call to check. Coincidentally, “I’m sorry, I don’t pick up when I’m busy” should be enough to discourage this.