Selena Gomez, everyone's favorite Disney-youth-turned-superstar, uses her fame to talk about issues facing youth.
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No matter how blessed you are, or how great your life is, when people say mean things it hurts your feelings. At least, that's how the conversation goes down when Gomez sat down with Ellen DeGeneres to discuss her single "Who Says" in 201
As one, she talks about how damaging she believes social media can be through her career. of the most-followed people on Instagram (she's the neck and neck with Ariana Grande for the second most-followed person, behind the swoon-worthwhile Cristiano Ronaldo), it's no surprise that sometimes people say things to Gomez on social media. However, she's using it as a platform to bust bullies and uplift those who have experienced cyber bullying first hand.
Gomez has been in the spotlight since childhood. It's something she has grown up with and is very used to.
But, just because you are used to people following you around with your cameras and prying into your personal life does not mean that its easy thing to handle. Because she has achieved such worldwide fame, she is one of the most sought after celebrities on social media too. "Sometimes, she's noticed, she has to delete the app from her phone because she gets so wrapped up in negativity."
"You can not avoid it [negativity] sometimes," Selena told the New York Times in 2017. " I delete the app from my phone at least once a week. You fixate on the [negative] ones. They're not like, 'You're Ugly' It's Like They Want To Cut Your Soul '.
Although she has taken a stand against bullies and urges young people to stay away from using too much screen time, she admits that sometimes she appreciates what social media offers. "It may be great in moments, but I'd just be careful and allow yourself some time limits," Gomez said.
Gomez says she's trying to stay away from social media
Even when she tries to avoid it the hurtful things that she does people say on social media have a way of reaching the star. Also, the bullies somehow find a way to focus on the really hurtful things that a person is insecure about already. Her fame and success make her an easy target.
"Imagine all the insecurities that you already feel about yourself and having someone write a paragraph pointing out every little thing, even if it's just physical," Gomez said.
Gomez is no stranger to the social media's dangers and speaks out against using it too much
Selena regularly takes social media breaks, and despite being a lucrative part of her celebrity status, recently called social media both "selfish" and "dangerous" to people of her generation. Selena, who was supposed to be promoting her new movie The Dead Do not Die instead went on a tangent about the dangers of social media.
"I think our world is going through a lot, obviously, but I would say social media has really been terrible for my generation." The star said. "I understand that it's amazing to use your platform but it scare me when you see how exposed these young girls and boys are. They're not really aware of the news or anything going on … It's a very, I do not want to say it's selfish because that sounds rude, but I think it's dangerous. I do not think people are getting the right information. "
Regardless of how much she uses social media herself, the actress realizes that it can have dangerous consequences for young people ill-prepared to deal with the bullies that lurk there.