"I don't know how much I can say because I don't want my wife to be angry with me," said Middledich. "Only after I got married did I like, 'Molly, I'm sorry, but we have to settle here unconventionally. "To her credit, instead of saying … 'I came out,' she was like, 'Let's figure this out.'"
Not only did they invent it, but the 37-year-old actor said, "To be honest, our swing save the marriage. "
" We have different speeds and we argue about it all the time, but it's better than feeling unheard of and alone and having to rush into the shadows, "he said." By the way, it's now called "The swinging term is old."
Middlicich said that "swinging" was not something he was aiming for.
"I call myself a weirdo, but that's not it," he said. "I just like it. I'm sexual. "
Marriage to Gates, 32, didn't change that, he said.
“I always thought I was a romantic and when I fell in love, it faded. It's been going on for a few years ̵
The couple has rules, he said, and functions as a unit.  Their arrangement even lends itself to some creativity.
"It's an eternal state of control and communication, so much like, 'OK, we have to stop. Cold, "said Middledich." I'm gas, and it stops. This is actually the premise for a comedy series we write together. "