Nashville, Ten. – In the days after a man was stabbed to death at Poppy's Chicken Restaurant in Maryland, there have been reports of violent incidents elsewhere in the country.
A man was recorded in a video on a cellphone striking a woman after a dispute in
This incident followed the body of a Popeys employee by striking a 55-year-old woman on the ground after a dispute in Columbia, Tenn., In a dispute. The woman suffered six broken ribs, a broken knee glass and a broken arm.
"We're just in such a fast paced life and we don't want something to break that pace, and that's when our anger is a quick answer," says Scott Reeder, an anger management specialist in Tennessee.
Anger is the answer to real or perceived injustice, Reeder said, noting that customers often enter restaurants expecting staff to be average, order would be mistaken, or a wrong change would be sent.
"We already enter it with such a pre-prepared response. to: "If I have to, I'll take care of the business." You know? "
Reader said that people are just not as connected as we used to be. His advice: slow down and show some compassion.
"Often, we just react and then withdraw, and then we reconsider our actions and there is usually a lot of regret," he said.
He said he teaches the value of out-of-class in his classes ̵