Whitney Houston's close friend Robin Crawford opens for the first time about their romantic relationship in a new memoir.
The two met around 1980 in New Jersey when they were in their late teens and immediately formed a relationship, Crawford writes in his book, "A Song for You: My Life with Whitney Houston."
won a Grammy, died of drowning and the combined effects of heart disease and cocaine use in February 2012. She was 48 years old.
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After Houston's career began, she had concerns that people would use her relationship with Crawford against them, read an excerpt from a book due out on November 1
"She said we shouldn't be physically any more, because that would make our journey even more difficult," Crawford writes in her book. " She said that if people knew about us, they would use that against us, and in the '80s, that's how it felt. "
Houston's mother, gospel singer Sissy Houston, was also clearly concerned about her close relationship, Crawford writes," Whitney told me that her mother told her that it was not natural for two women to be so close, but we we were so close. "
Crawford says she kept her relative joining Houston" safe "and" found solace in my silence. "
" We never talked about labels like lesbians or gay "she wrote." We just lived our life and hoped it could continue this way forever. "
carrying rumors that Houston was romantically involved with Crawford.In a January 2013 interview with Oprah Winfrey, Sissy Houston said she was not sure if the two were romantically involved, but would worry if her daughter was
"Would it bother you if your daughter, Whitney, were gay?" Oprah asked. "Absolutely," Sissy Houston replied, telling Winfrey that she wouldn't regret it.
Crawford writes that she finally decided to share her story because she "felt the need to uphold our friendship."
"I had the urgency to stand up and share the woman behind the incredible talent," he writes in his book, adding: "I wanted to raise my legacy, give her respect and share the story of who she was before glory and in this is to accept our friendship. ”